Bondage Sex Toys Explained.

Since the release of the Fifty Shades Of Grey trilogy, the popularity of fetish gear and bondage toys has skyrocketed. Although visions of leather masks and uncomfortable spikes might immediately spring to mind for some, the world of bondage play is fast becoming better understood as an exciting way for many couples to spice up their sex lives.

Although bondage does often play a role in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism & Masochism) practices it can also be enjoyed on it’s own without the involvement of dungeons, whips and chains! In fact, introducing a little light bondage into your relationship can be a great way to intensify your pleasure, learn your limits and become closer to your partner.

With a range of fetish sex toys and bondage sex toys available, incorporating a little kink into your love life is just one way to add some spice to your romantic trysts as well as bringing yourself and your lover closer than ever before, both emotionally and physically.

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Types Of Fetish Gear & Bondage Toys.

Ball Gags

While it may not be the very first piece of bondage equipment you choose to experiment with, any fetish toy box is not complete without at least one ball gag. Ball gags are available in a huge range of sizes, shapes and textures to suit a wide variety of tastes to cater for all types of bondage play. In addition to offering a biting piece during intense orgasm, the use of a ball gag requires complete trust between lovers. With no option of using a safe word, it is seen by the dominant as the ultimate display of submission and trust, which can be extremely arousing for both partners. Taking away the option of verbal communication during bondage play can give the dominant partner the opportunity to learn how to read other body signals, creating a deeper emotional experience for both partners. If you are new to ball gags, try introducing it into your bedroom play without the addition of restraints until you feel completely comfortable that your partner can read your non-verbal signals.

Bondage Blindfolds & Masks

Using bondage blindfolds to remove sight from your sensory programming allows you to tap into your other senses at a deeper level. Your sense of smell, sound and touch will be heightened, taking both body and mind to new levels of arousal. The use of blindfolds between partners involves complete trust. The person being blindfolded is automatically more vulnerable and should be treated with respect at all times.

Masks can be used to create a new aura of mystery in the bedroom, making wonderful accessories for role play and fantasy play.

Spanking Toys & Feather Ticklers

With or without the inclusion of restraints or blindfolds, it can be fun to tease and please your lover with different types of stimulation. Whether you want to tease your lover into an erotic frenzy with a feather tickler or you want to experience the blood rush that only the sting of a riding crop can bring, the increased sensory feedback will lead to heightened sensations and enhanced arousal. When it comes to the inclusion of spankers and ticklers into your bedroom play it’s important that all spanking is consensual and that the person on the receiving end finds the experience pleasurable and arousing. Spanking toys such as floggers, paddles and whips are commonly used on the fleshy part of the buttocks, with every strike bringing extra blood flow to the area. This makes the entire area more sensitive and responsive to physical touch, bringing about an escalated sense of arousal. If you’re not too sure about spanking but wish to explore the world of sensory play, feather ticklers and Wattenberg wheels can be used to excite the nerve endings without inflicting any pain.

Bondage Handcuffs & Bondage Restraints

Bondage handcuffs and silk ties are the least intimidating form of bondage toys that most couples experiment with before deciding whether to move onto full BDSM-style bondage restraints. Allowing someone to cuff you can be quite scary at first, but also quite exhilarating and freeing. Allowing your partner to restrain you in any form is a sign of complete trust in them, which can be quite a turn on in itself. It’s a good idea to purchase at least 2 pairs of cuffs to give you more options for positions and movement.

Once trust has been established and both partners are ready to upgrade from silk ties and handcuffs, there is a huge variety of full restraints systems available. From wrist & ankle cuffs, bondage tape and bondage ropes through to over-the-door restraint systems and spreader bars with cuffs, there are restraints systems to suit just about every fantasy imaginable.

When selecting your handcuffs & restraints, choose from a series that can easily be added to later on if you wish to expand your collection.

Nipple & Clitoral Stimulators

Nipple stimulators and clitoral stimulators provide very precise stimulation to these extremely sensitive erogenous zones. Whether it be through suction, vibration or a delicious pinch, the extra stimulation heightens the sensitivity of these areas, resulting in enhanced arousal and intensified sexual responses. Nipple clamps are available in a range of different shapes and sizes. Many can be adjusted to deliver anything from a gentle pinch through to a stronger bite, depending on what you desire. Clitoral clamps apply a gentle pressure either side of the clitoris, increasing the prominence and sensitivity of the clitoris. While sometimes nipple and clitoral stimulators are left on during erotic play, they also leave the areas extremely responsive to touch once removed.

Fetish Clothing

Whether you want indulge in your deepest desires through role playing or you simply want to add a little spice to an otherwise boring romp in the bedroom, fetish clothing can be as extreme or as subtle as you choose! While sometimes it’s nice to put on a mask and pretend to be someone else, it can also be just as exciting to put on something sexy and play a raunchier version of yourself! Fetish clothing can be worn discreetly under your daily attire, or you might like to invest in a complete outfit to fulfil your lover’s deepest fantasies.

Fetish & Bondage Kits

It doesn’t matter whether you’re a bondage enthusiast or a beginner, purchasing bondage kits is a great way to enjoy some variety and to make sure you are equipped with everything you need for an awesome bondage adventure. By purchasing your bondage toys and fetish sex toys in kits, you can also be confident that all the different parts are compatible with one another.

Fetish Gear & Bondage Toys In Summary

Bondage & fetish play should always be a sensual, loving and trusting act between two people. While a bondage session requires at least two people to play the role of the dominant and the submissive, these roles do not necessarily have to reflect a person’s role in everyday life. In fact these roles can change as often as the couple desires! Complete trust between lovers is paramount. The partner you choose to use bondage sex toys with should be someone you trust and is willing to know your mind as well as your body.

Some people chose to have a ‘safe’ word that the submissive partner can use if at any point they want the activity to stop. This is usually something that is quite absurd and not likely to be said in ‘the heat of the moment’. If you’re only dabbling in light bondage you may not feel the need for safe word, but it might be a good idea to have one just in case you get carried away! By honouring the simple rule that all sex should be safe and consensual, bondage can provide both partners with amazing erotic experiences, connecting the mind and body on a whole new level.

Finally, take the time to enjoy this sensual experience with your lover. Whether you want to re-enact your favourite Fifty Shades Of Grey scene or you want to test your own pleasure-pain barrier, the use of fetish and bondage sex toys such as handcuffs, restraints, blindfolds, spankers & ticklers should be a sensual and pleasurable for everyone involved!